I remember it like it was yesterday. The day we found out I was pregnant... I was 22, in a casual relationship with a long time friend, and working part time as a nanny. As much as I loved children and was around them alot, there was no part of me planning on becoming pregnant. Like I said, casual relationship. I had taken my charge to the bowling alley that night. When he was hanging out with his parents, I was texting my best friend, complaining about my recent weight gain.